In the vast majority of cases, the spirit you want to communicate with will come through and be eager to talk with you as well. Please understand that I cannot guarantee the particular spirit you want to reach will be who comes through. The spirits involved have a choice and have their reasons  Although I am able to reach out to connect with a spirit in particular, there are sometimes instances where someone else will step in who seems adamant about it. I have found over the years that there is usually a very good reason for this, even if we don’t always understand it at the time or I connect with someone we weren’t expecting.  Usually when this happens there is a very good reason and the message is important.